you really don't know how your forgotten words dropped somebody's jaw. how those words that you said and have no memory of saying it made an impact in somebody's life.
benda-benda yang kau cakap ikut sedap mulut kau kadang-kadang boleh mengguris hati the person yang kau spit those words to, yang kau tidak jangka akan meninggalkan apa-apa kesan pasal maybe he/she is just someone close and they should know you by heart pasal kau memang suka cakap ikut sedap mulut pun.
dan kau mungkin tidak jangka bahawa dia boleh ingat those exact words even if it was said a long, long, long time ago.
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well that's kinda true. somebody close to me used to panggil i hipokrit nak mati bila i pergi universiti and wearing the tudung. the word was hipokrit. just one word.
truth is i was so scared at the whole new environment, takut i was being disrespectful ke and takut tak dapat kawan, like all classmates pulaukan I ke apa so i can't study in peace which is damn important to me. haha. i ingat that sampai sekarang lah jugak somehow it hurts je.
you cakap apa he...
i can't remember what i said tht left a cut deep down. or maybe i didn't say anything hurtful at all. i really can't remember.
but somebody said something unintentionally to me & it left a cut. though i'm not sure whether it's a big, deep cut or not.
what happened to me maybe ada similar sikit with your situation. like, long, long, long time ago punya hal.
ever heard that story about this man told his son to hammer a nail everytime he's upset onto his wooden gate and after a while he took them all out and left were the holes from the nails and the man said to the son sumthing like, "even if the person forgives us, there's still a mark left in their heart that reminds them of our wrongdoings and can't be forgotten". well it's true, but sometimes we CAN forget the whole thing if we try, but if we can't than we just have to live with it and move on. forgive them is indeed forgiving ourselves. somebody said, "forgiveness is the complete form of revenge".
ever heard of the quote 'easy for you to say...' ?
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